Trawling through the Internet, I picked up on an article on the top reasons that people emigrate. Reading through their list, there were some that coincided with the reasons I had for moving abroad, but many that didn’t. And my guess is that everyone’s list would differ slightly…Here is mine - tell me what you think. Are these much the same as you would give for planning such a dramatic move?
1. Move to be near family: Actually, without wanting to appear overly sentimental, this would probably cover at least one through five for me! As far as I am concerned, there is nothing more important than family. I decided to move back to the land of my birth in a heartbeat because my children had moved here
2. Move to a family-orientated area: Strange as it may seem, I find my London district far more family orientated than South Africa, where I had to padlock the door behind me when I got home. Here we have an annual street party and people greet one another at our local corner shop or as they walk their dogs – or cats! Italy, Greece, Spain – people have given the same reason to move to these countries…
3. Safety: This is a difficult one to explain to those who have not actually felt threatened on a regular basis. I am blown away daily by the fact that I can stroll along the Thames, here in London, without having to cower when I hear running footsteps behind me – it took me a while to adjust!
4. Public transport: Coming from a country with absolutely no public transport, you will seldom hear me complain about tubes and buses here. I had a nasty car accident a while back that left me very reluctant ever to drive again. This meant that, before I moved, I was a virtual prisoner in my own home. Now, with my beloved Freedom Pass, I am as free as a bird!
5. Health care: You won’t hear a word of complaint about the much-maligned National Health Service from me. I am sure that there are many justifiable complaints, but I have not experienced anything but wonderful service and massive help and support. As one gets older this is an absolute must…
6. A caring society: I personally find it strange that people in the UK are not grateful for the many opportunities they have available. By this I mean help with getting jobs, job-seekers allowances, dole, NHS, help to get qualified for a job, council houses and so on. Where I come from there is absolutely no help AT ALL – you could starve in the street and no one would notice
Do my reasons to move have any similarities with yours? Why don’t you do what I have done: put a list together and see what is REALLY important to you? Will the country of your dreams fulfil your expectations? It may be a good idea if you can to go to your dream country and stay a while before committing yourself to a permanent move. Perhaps go on to an ex-pat website and ask what those who have moved feel – will it be as you think it will?
I had friends who moved from South Africa to Canada – the wife wanted to be nearer her sister. To do so they had to leave an older married child behind, he had to close his legal practice and they had to find schools for two kids in Canada. They returned to SA a year later, financially far worse off than when they left and with one child having chosen to remain behind in Canada. Not what you might call a success story…My move however has been utterly successful, and so can yours be – you just need to give the matter sufficient thought.
I’d love to have your thoughts on this – take care and I’ll be back soon!
Kim
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