Moving Overseas – I can’t make that happen…can I?

What is the difference between people who make their dreams come true and those who don’t? It’s not the act of making painful decisions, nor does it have much to do with having loads of money. People who live their dreams didn’t get what they wanted by selling their soul, struggling against the tide or gaining a windfall from the lottery!

Achieving the dream of living overseas is possible for anyone. Like any big project, it takes a vision and small steps that take you closer and closer to living that dream. People who have successfully made the move overseas didn’t wake up one day and think, ‘It’s official – I’m moving overseas today!’ Instead, they started with a niggle in their stomach. Something inside them felt excitement at the thought of the Mediterranean view from a Spanish villa, a field of wild flowers behind a cottage in France or a condo in America with a BBQ grill big enough to cook 100 hamburgers. And from that niggle, tiny actions were taken – one leading to another.

Sooner or later, if small actions towards a vision continue, the momentum starts to build and the vision becomes more and more achievable. Looking on the Internet for properties on Monday could lead to emailing an estate agent on Wednesday. After a phone conversation with an agent, a fact find regarding visas might follow. Then perhaps a few hours on ex-pat blogs (web journals) a month later and you will understand how to find employment. Perhaps the next step will be to visit a property show and discover finance options that you never knew were available.

When faced with a large project or massive change, many people tend to freeze and think, ‘I’m nuts. How could I actually follow that dream? I don’t have enough money…I don’t know the language…I don’t ’. These are usually the same people who have had the same job and the same complaints (about the same job) for years and years and years. These are the people that want more, constantly complain about how they deserve more, but never actually get up and take action. These are the same people who react to life and bumble along letting life take whatever course it puts on their path. Are you a bumbler? I hope not!

Why not make 2011 the year that you start taking tiny actions? Search the Internet, go to an exhibition, book an overseas visit, buy a book or create a journal outlining everything you want. You have a choice – you can focus on how miserable living in the UK is or you can put your attention on how great it will be when you are sitting in the sun, eating fresh fruit and watching your family play in the garden.

When I first had the thought that an overseas life was calling, it scared the pants off of me. I was £30,000 in debt, had no assets, no job and my destination country made it almost impossible for me move there. Added to this, there was no easy way of obtaining a visa to work - let alone stay. Objections aside, my first action was to write in my journal announcing my niggle. I wrote something like this: “I would like to meet a handsome prince [from my country of choice] who will marry me, buy me lots of clothes and pay off my debt.”

A few months later I met a guy during a networking event – he almost fit the bill. The guy was wealthy but he wasn’t a prince nor did he have all his teeth. Needless to say, within 6 months and taking a lot of small actions I sold my possessions and moved overseas. That was over 14 years ago and to this day, I can confirm it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Not only am I living my dream, but I’ve applied my small step approach to all things in my life – I now have overseas homes (yes – more than one), an amazing husband (who has all his teeth), no debt and an all round wonderful life. So – don’t be a bumbler. Start taking some small steps and discover what life abroad has in store for you!

Kim

Kim Brown
The Overseas Guides Company
Visit my website at: http://www.emigrationguide.com/