I have just been chatting to a local London friend of mine on the phone. “Are you missing your South African friend now that she’s returned home after her two week stay?” was her question to me. I found it difficult to answer – yes…and no! Truth is I am utterly exhausted - I fair wore myself out!
There is so much to do in London: I have a friend with a longboat so we sailed from Windsor to Hampton Court – it was wonderful. We also attended a colleague’s hen party and behaved rather badly! Plus saw Martin Shaw in a play at Richmond, went to the musical ‘Wicked’, paid a fiver to watch ‘The Merry Wives of Windsor’ at the Globe and attended a memorial to ‘The Few’ of the Battle of Britain outside the Churchill War Rooms which ended with a fly past of a Hurricane and a Spitfire: what a way to end two weeks of London fun. I now need a holiday…!
Talking to my friend, I was trying to persuade her to move abroad. She’s quite keen but scared of the unknown factors…and who of us who have moved weren’t? Most people have the idea and the initial spark, but soon lose their drive. These are the people live to say “If only” in their old age! Then there are those who have the passion and desire to carry their plans to fruition…but inevitably, at some stage, find themselves stopping to catch their breath and to wonder if they are making the right decision.
An OGC reader I spoke to, when planning her move abroad, found exactly that: “I spent all my spare time planning, preparing and ticking off endless lists. After a few months I felt overwhelmed – was I merely caught up in ‘living the dream’ or did I truly understand what lay ahead? And how could I make sure that I wasn’t making a big mistake?”
I have chatted to people who have found that the move wasn’t right for them and they moved back to the UK almost immediately – at massive cost needless to say. So how do you make sure that the decision is right for you?
One way is to ‘play house’ at your overseas location. Try to make arrangements to stay for as long as possible on your next visit. Then plan to experience the place as someone who lives there would. This means that, rather than staying in a hotel, you rent an apartment or a villa or – first prize - do a house swap. Instead of visiting the main attractions, check out all the things that the locals do. Go grocery shopping, look at employment adverts and do everything you would normally do if you were moving from one town to another in the UK.
My afore-mentioned OGC reader decided to book a two week trip to her intended relocation destination. Although she had spent several holidays there, she had never done so with the intention of one day calling it home. She said it was the best decision ever: “By spending two weeks in my future town I was able to better set my expectations. I visited the doctor, paid a visit to a community centre, made enquiries about a local art class and made sure to eat most of my meals at home. By the end of the two weeks, I realised that some of my expectations were a bit too high whereas others were too low. Overall, the holiday gave me what I needed to get back on track.”
You might want to test public transport to see how reliable it is, stroll through the area at different times of the day to listen out for noise, buy the type of groceries you normally purchase to determine if they are available and at what price – and definitely check out health services. How far away are they and will they cater to all your needs?
By giving yourself time as a resident rather than a tourist, you will get a more realistic idea of daily life in your desired location. Of course there will be pros and cons but, without experiencing life as a local, you will be making the move without knowing exactly what those pros and cons are. The more you match your requirements and your expectations to your overseas destination, the less likely you will be to ask, “Am I making the right decision to move abroad?”
Carol
http://www.emigrationguide.com
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Friday, 27 August 2010
Friday, 9 July 2010
Money Saving Tips Abroad
Hi there – how are you?
I never, in my wildest dreams, imagined that I would be hoping for a cloudy, cool day here in London. While my friends were here and Wimbledon was on, it would have been a tad churlish to wish for overcast skies but this week at last I welcome the cooler weather!
Are you going away this summer? Whether you are looking to buy a property abroad or just joining the steadily declining number of holiday makers overseas, there is no doubt that financial restraints have meant that tourism has dropped. Most of us or having to tighten our belts and count the pennies, to use two clichés in one sentence! Not only is getting out there more costly but accommodation is stretching budgets too, so here are a few of my own tips for saving money next time you are abroad:
Food shopping
Bye for another week – take care!
Carol.
http://www.emigrationguide.com/
I never, in my wildest dreams, imagined that I would be hoping for a cloudy, cool day here in London. While my friends were here and Wimbledon was on, it would have been a tad churlish to wish for overcast skies but this week at last I welcome the cooler weather!
Are you going away this summer? Whether you are looking to buy a property abroad or just joining the steadily declining number of holiday makers overseas, there is no doubt that financial restraints have meant that tourism has dropped. Most of us or having to tighten our belts and count the pennies, to use two clichés in one sentence! Not only is getting out there more costly but accommodation is stretching budgets too, so here are a few of my own tips for saving money next time you are abroad:
Food shopping
- It’s true that there are usually some lovely specialist stores nearby but prices can be on the high side if there is little competition in rural areas. It may be wise to consider shopping online if you can. This will mean that you can compare pricing and buy cheaper plus you will be less inclined to impulse buy!
- You could also find out if they have something like special offers or ‘double point’s days’ at your local supermarket and make an effort only to shop on those days. Also have a look at the items in the section for ‘nearing sell by date’. I have had lots of success here – things are sometimes quite dramatically reduced and are absolutely fine if you are going to eat them straight away or freeze them
- Last but by no means least, make a point of using your local fresh produce market for the bulk of your general day to day fruit and veggies if there is one in the vicinity. You may have to queue at the popular stalls but produce is usually cheaper and often much better than at the supermarkets
- Once you have your own property, think about growing your own vegetables. Some friends of mine have a small plot and were absolutely delighted this year to be able to pick the most wonderful green beans, potatoes and tomatoes from their own garden. It is tremendous fun to watch something you have planted grow from seed and not difficult to achieve
- Invest in a water butt to catch rainwater for your garden
- Every village or town has one or more. Look out for adverts in your supermarket and patronise these – you will be surprised what you can find.
- Good insulation helps cut heating bills down in winter and air con. Bills in summer. Sealing outside doors also helps here
- A wood burning stove and/or an open fire may well be all you need for many of the winter months instead of more costly central heating
- Remember to turn off your TV, PC and mobile phone charger when not in use – from the wall and not just on the remote! A little goes a long way in saving you money!
- Both petrol and diesel are usually cheaper at supermarkets. Try to avoid motorway service stations if you possibly can, they can be quite a bit more expensive
- This is always worth looking into properly. You need to look at the cover you have as well as any excess and compare to other companies
- This is vital. Communication with your neighbours, local shopkeepers and new friends is vital, not only for your peace of mind and happiness but for helping you to save money on your general living expenses. When I first bought my house abroad a kind neighbour told me where to get the very freshest bread in the morning which also happened to be a little cheaper than the bakery I had been going to. OK, a small point but a good example of how integration can help you in so many ways. So don’t be shy, socialise as much as you can and both you and your pocket are bound to benefit!
Bye for another week – take care!
Carol.
http://www.emigrationguide.com/
Friday, 18 June 2010
Moving abroad NOW can still make sense!
Hey – how are you?
Well, it’s the end of a busy time for me. Last week I went to a lecture on ancient maps at the British Library and also went to see the amazing Japanese Kabuki at Sadler’s Wells. It was stunning – very strange and unlike anything I had seen before, but fascinating. Three of the actors came from families that had been involved in Kabuki for generations…we listened to a translation in one ear and caught the sounds in the other – it was brilliant!
Not so our daily intake of news! Are you, like me, rather tired of the constant gloomy headlines in our newspapers and on TV? Sterling seems to vacillate constantly against other currencies and just seems to have added to our woes. If you are keen to have your very own place abroad but feel it to be something of a distant dream, please do not despair!
Your main expense, namely a property abroad, is generally speaking, a lot cheaper than in the UK. If you own a property here this might mean that you will free up quite a sum of money – always useful. And if you don’t have capital to free up, there is very little doubt that it will be less expensive to get your foot on the property ladder abroad. Also remember that the price of property worldwide has been affected by the credit crunch – nowadays it is possible to make cheeky offers and sometimes get real bargains.
The other thing you might think about is ‘testing the waters’. You may want to rent abroad and see whether it suits you and whether indeed it is a viable option to move? You could rent out your property in the UK (if indeed you have one) for a set period of time, rent abroad for the same period of time and that way give yourself time to assess what you really want to do.
That way you will have the opportunity to try out an area before making a commitment to buy. You'll gain an insight into your neighbourhood: is it friendly and crime free or noisy and disorderly? Whether you are going to be living there yourself or buying as an investment it is vital that transport is readily available. Also things grocery stores, schools and other facilities – if it’s a holiday investment, is it near holiday amenities?
The real bonus with this strategy is that if you don't like the area you've decided to settle in overseas, or worse - you don't like the country - you can leave without the burden of selling a property. Most overseas tenancy contracts will tie you into a six or 12 month period rather than the indefinite, and often costly, amount of time it takes to sell a property.
It will also allow you to judge those indefinable things. For instance, have you considered how much you will miss all that is familiar to you? I moved to the UK from South Africa a number of years ago now, and the reason I moved was to be nearer my family, especially my grandchildren. I had no sooner settled than my son-in-law was transferred to Dubai…
My story had a happy ending in that I love London, have made new friends and see my son on a regular basis but you might find that all is not as you perhaps thought it would be.
So…plan on! Only you can make it happen and I am here to tell you that you can change your life if you want to – it’s just a matter of setting your goals and steadily working towards them.
Let me know how your plans are going…I’d love to hear your news…
Have a great week and best regards,
Carol.
http://www.EmigrationGuide.com
Well, it’s the end of a busy time for me. Last week I went to a lecture on ancient maps at the British Library and also went to see the amazing Japanese Kabuki at Sadler’s Wells. It was stunning – very strange and unlike anything I had seen before, but fascinating. Three of the actors came from families that had been involved in Kabuki for generations…we listened to a translation in one ear and caught the sounds in the other – it was brilliant!
Not so our daily intake of news! Are you, like me, rather tired of the constant gloomy headlines in our newspapers and on TV? Sterling seems to vacillate constantly against other currencies and just seems to have added to our woes. If you are keen to have your very own place abroad but feel it to be something of a distant dream, please do not despair!
Your main expense, namely a property abroad, is generally speaking, a lot cheaper than in the UK. If you own a property here this might mean that you will free up quite a sum of money – always useful. And if you don’t have capital to free up, there is very little doubt that it will be less expensive to get your foot on the property ladder abroad. Also remember that the price of property worldwide has been affected by the credit crunch – nowadays it is possible to make cheeky offers and sometimes get real bargains.
The other thing you might think about is ‘testing the waters’. You may want to rent abroad and see whether it suits you and whether indeed it is a viable option to move? You could rent out your property in the UK (if indeed you have one) for a set period of time, rent abroad for the same period of time and that way give yourself time to assess what you really want to do.
That way you will have the opportunity to try out an area before making a commitment to buy. You'll gain an insight into your neighbourhood: is it friendly and crime free or noisy and disorderly? Whether you are going to be living there yourself or buying as an investment it is vital that transport is readily available. Also things grocery stores, schools and other facilities – if it’s a holiday investment, is it near holiday amenities?
The real bonus with this strategy is that if you don't like the area you've decided to settle in overseas, or worse - you don't like the country - you can leave without the burden of selling a property. Most overseas tenancy contracts will tie you into a six or 12 month period rather than the indefinite, and often costly, amount of time it takes to sell a property.
It will also allow you to judge those indefinable things. For instance, have you considered how much you will miss all that is familiar to you? I moved to the UK from South Africa a number of years ago now, and the reason I moved was to be nearer my family, especially my grandchildren. I had no sooner settled than my son-in-law was transferred to Dubai…
My story had a happy ending in that I love London, have made new friends and see my son on a regular basis but you might find that all is not as you perhaps thought it would be.
So…plan on! Only you can make it happen and I am here to tell you that you can change your life if you want to – it’s just a matter of setting your goals and steadily working towards them.
Let me know how your plans are going…I’d love to hear your news…
Have a great week and best regards,
Carol.
http://www.EmigrationGuide.com
Friday, 23 April 2010
My 10 Top Reasons To Emigrate...
Trawling through the Internet, I picked up on an article on the top reasons that people emigrate. Reading through their list, there were some that coincided with the reasons I had for moving abroad, but many that didn’t. And my guess is that everyone’s list would differ slightly…Here is mine - tell me what you think. Are these much the same as you would give for planning such a dramatic move?
1. Move to be near family: Actually, without wanting to appear overly sentimental, this would probably cover at least one through five for me! As far as I am concerned, there is nothing more important than family. I decided to move back to the land of my birth in a heartbeat because my children had moved here
2. Move to a family-orientated area: Strange as it may seem, I find my London district far more family orientated than South Africa, where I had to padlock the door behind me when I got home. Here we have an annual street party and people greet one another at our local corner shop or as they walk their dogs – or cats! Italy, Greece, Spain – people have given the same reason to move to these countries…
3. Safety: This is a difficult one to explain to those who have not actually felt threatened on a regular basis. I am blown away daily by the fact that I can stroll along the Thames, here in London, without having to cower when I hear running footsteps behind me – it took me a while to adjust!
4. Public transport: Coming from a country with absolutely no public transport, you will seldom hear me complain about tubes and buses here. I had a nasty car accident a while back that left me very reluctant ever to drive again. This meant that, before I moved, I was a virtual prisoner in my own home. Now, with my beloved Freedom Pass, I am as free as a bird!
5. Health care: You won’t hear a word of complaint about the much-maligned National Health Service from me. I am sure that there are many justifiable complaints, but I have not experienced anything but wonderful service and massive help and support. As one gets older this is an absolute must…
6. A caring society: I personally find it strange that people in the UK are not grateful for the many opportunities they have available. By this I mean help with getting jobs, job-seekers allowances, dole, NHS, help to get qualified for a job, council houses and so on. Where I come from there is absolutely no help AT ALL – you could starve in the street and no one would notice
Do my reasons to move have any similarities with yours? Why don’t you do what I have done: put a list together and see what is REALLY important to you? Will the country of your dreams fulfil your expectations? It may be a good idea if you can to go to your dream country and stay a while before committing yourself to a permanent move. Perhaps go on to an ex-pat website and ask what those who have moved feel – will it be as you think it will?
I had friends who moved from South Africa to Canada – the wife wanted to be nearer her sister. To do so they had to leave an older married child behind, he had to close his legal practice and they had to find schools for two kids in Canada. They returned to SA a year later, financially far worse off than when they left and with one child having chosen to remain behind in Canada. Not what you might call a success story…My move however has been utterly successful, and so can yours be – you just need to give the matter sufficient thought.
I’d love to have your thoughts on this – take care and I’ll be back soon!
Kim
http://emigrationguide.com/
1. Move to be near family: Actually, without wanting to appear overly sentimental, this would probably cover at least one through five for me! As far as I am concerned, there is nothing more important than family. I decided to move back to the land of my birth in a heartbeat because my children had moved here
2. Move to a family-orientated area: Strange as it may seem, I find my London district far more family orientated than South Africa, where I had to padlock the door behind me when I got home. Here we have an annual street party and people greet one another at our local corner shop or as they walk their dogs – or cats! Italy, Greece, Spain – people have given the same reason to move to these countries…
3. Safety: This is a difficult one to explain to those who have not actually felt threatened on a regular basis. I am blown away daily by the fact that I can stroll along the Thames, here in London, without having to cower when I hear running footsteps behind me – it took me a while to adjust!
4. Public transport: Coming from a country with absolutely no public transport, you will seldom hear me complain about tubes and buses here. I had a nasty car accident a while back that left me very reluctant ever to drive again. This meant that, before I moved, I was a virtual prisoner in my own home. Now, with my beloved Freedom Pass, I am as free as a bird!
5. Health care: You won’t hear a word of complaint about the much-maligned National Health Service from me. I am sure that there are many justifiable complaints, but I have not experienced anything but wonderful service and massive help and support. As one gets older this is an absolute must…
6. A caring society: I personally find it strange that people in the UK are not grateful for the many opportunities they have available. By this I mean help with getting jobs, job-seekers allowances, dole, NHS, help to get qualified for a job, council houses and so on. Where I come from there is absolutely no help AT ALL – you could starve in the street and no one would notice
Do my reasons to move have any similarities with yours? Why don’t you do what I have done: put a list together and see what is REALLY important to you? Will the country of your dreams fulfil your expectations? It may be a good idea if you can to go to your dream country and stay a while before committing yourself to a permanent move. Perhaps go on to an ex-pat website and ask what those who have moved feel – will it be as you think it will?
I had friends who moved from South Africa to Canada – the wife wanted to be nearer her sister. To do so they had to leave an older married child behind, he had to close his legal practice and they had to find schools for two kids in Canada. They returned to SA a year later, financially far worse off than when they left and with one child having chosen to remain behind in Canada. Not what you might call a success story…My move however has been utterly successful, and so can yours be – you just need to give the matter sufficient thought.
I’d love to have your thoughts on this – take care and I’ll be back soon!
Kim
http://emigrationguide.com/
Friday, 9 April 2010
Emigrating Abroad
Hello there!
My name is Carol. It was my birthday recently – the forth one since I immigrated to the UK (the land of my birth) after a lifetime spent in Africa. During my birthday party I had what Oprah Winfrey calls ‘a light bulb moment’ – one that I want to share with all who will listen!
This was the first birthday that I no longer felt like a ‘visitor’ – and it was such a great feeling! I was surrounded by friends and family - my son lives here in London but it also so happened that my son-in-law was over from Dubai to share the occasion too. Somehow I felt that I had lived here for ever; it took a while and, as I am sure all who move countries will agree, it does take time to make new friends and to get into a routine of life that is both enjoyable and practical.
But believe me, the day does come that your new country will feel like home. You just have to believe that and to actually work at it. I was fortunate at the time to have my daughter and her family living nearby. She had a friend who was moving to the States and who wanted to rent out her lovely little flat just a few blocks from my daughter and my adorable grandchildren – what a win! They moved to Dubai about a year later but at least they were there in the early days.
Then a friend of my daughter’s bore my CV off to her child’s school where it was picked up by my present boss’s wife…and here I have happily beavered away at The Overseas Guides Company for nearly four years!
Part of my job has been to travel abroad, to have a look at various property options and to meet all the property professionals that many of the OGC readers have come to use and rely upon.
I have talked to literally hundreds of folk who are taking the plunge and moving abroad and I have personally contributed to many of the Property Buying Guides that the OGC provides – you may want to look at them on www.emigrationguide.com. It struck me that it may just be useful for me to share with you what I have learnt, both from my own personal experiences and from listening to the many concerns, experiences and tales shared with me on a daily basis.
So do join me weekly as I chat about various aspects of moving abroad…You never know, there may just be something that will help you, inspire you or just plain bring a smile to your face!
My name is Carol. It was my birthday recently – the forth one since I immigrated to the UK (the land of my birth) after a lifetime spent in Africa. During my birthday party I had what Oprah Winfrey calls ‘a light bulb moment’ – one that I want to share with all who will listen!
This was the first birthday that I no longer felt like a ‘visitor’ – and it was such a great feeling! I was surrounded by friends and family - my son lives here in London but it also so happened that my son-in-law was over from Dubai to share the occasion too. Somehow I felt that I had lived here for ever; it took a while and, as I am sure all who move countries will agree, it does take time to make new friends and to get into a routine of life that is both enjoyable and practical.
But believe me, the day does come that your new country will feel like home. You just have to believe that and to actually work at it. I was fortunate at the time to have my daughter and her family living nearby. She had a friend who was moving to the States and who wanted to rent out her lovely little flat just a few blocks from my daughter and my adorable grandchildren – what a win! They moved to Dubai about a year later but at least they were there in the early days.
Then a friend of my daughter’s bore my CV off to her child’s school where it was picked up by my present boss’s wife…and here I have happily beavered away at The Overseas Guides Company for nearly four years!
Part of my job has been to travel abroad, to have a look at various property options and to meet all the property professionals that many of the OGC readers have come to use and rely upon.
I have talked to literally hundreds of folk who are taking the plunge and moving abroad and I have personally contributed to many of the Property Buying Guides that the OGC provides – you may want to look at them on www.emigrationguide.com. It struck me that it may just be useful for me to share with you what I have learnt, both from my own personal experiences and from listening to the many concerns, experiences and tales shared with me on a daily basis.
So do join me weekly as I chat about various aspects of moving abroad…You never know, there may just be something that will help you, inspire you or just plain bring a smile to your face!
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